I think online dating is slightly trickier than normal dating, not so much that it is a harder experience but that it requires a different set of rules and an altered approach to normal dating. What you need to think about is that these people are online because they either have no time to date in the real world or they much prefer to take their time.
It is not all about speed when it comes to online dating, some times it is about patience and if you follow these simple rules, you will be able to get an edge on the latest dating buzz to hit the internet. First and foremost, you must understand the science behind the use of the profile. Always use the most recent of your pictures and include several full body shots. People are more likely to contact you or answer your message if they know they can match the picture with the person they are talking to. I have heard many people wonder why they can never get a reply when they join a dating sight and a quick look at their profiles will reveal why.
Number one, never ever use a single photo on your profile, this turns people off and they think that you are trying to hide something. A single good picture usually translates to people thinking that you either are not the person you are pretending to be, or you are using an old picture. That is the popular psychology when it comes to profiles – and this is one of the worst ways you can employ. I know there is always that one picture you are proud of, it may hep you look like a superstar, but it isn’t going to help you get dates. Show the human side of you and post as many pictures as you can. This will create a safety zone in people who view your profile and will believe that you are sincere in finding a date.
Also, remember to fill out your profile with as much detail as possible. Remember, your profile is talking and walking for you. You are ot there to smile, shake their hands or even judge them by their body language. Your profile is your dating ‘pitch’ and you have to put in some time and effort into it. A shoddy profile with very little details will not only turn people away from trying to contact you, but leave with even ore lonely nights on the horizon. Details, details and more details. That is the by word of internet dating. If you need to clinch that meeting and get that phone number, you have to be as up front and as informative as possible. Don’t allow yourself to skimp on details and make sure you dedicate a part of your week to update your profile. This is how you go in prepared and once these foundations are prepared, the rest will be smooth sailing for anyone.
